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❤️🇬🇧 I didn't expect Liverpool to stay with me like this. I rode the double-decker buses 🚌, took the ferry across the Mersey ⛴️ (and yes...there was absolutely no way I was making that trip without Gerry & the Pacemakers playing in my head 😄🎶), wandered through the city, and spent hours in The Beatles Story museum. I thought I'd come away humming the songs. Truthfully...I still am. 😊 But somewhere between the ferry ride, the museum, dinner with my English friend Janet B

Leadership has changed. Today's senior leaders are navigating challenges that weren't part of the job a decade ago. They're leading through uncertainty, supporting teams experiencing burnout, managing constant change, addressing mental health concerns, and trying to create workplaces where people feel safe enough to contribute their best ideas. Technical expertise is no longer enough. The leaders who are making the greatest impact are those who know how to build trust, regula

A month ago, I came to the UK to house/dog sit for a couple of months. 🇬🇧🐾 People have asked me why. I wanted a new perspective. I wanted to step outside my comfort zone and experience life differently. What I didn't expect was how much it would stretch me. The part that surprised me most? I didn't think I was stressed. I kept telling myself, "𝘐'𝘮 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘦." "𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘥." "𝘐𝘵'𝘴 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘥𝘷𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦." But undernea

Most facilitators pour tremendous energy into designing meaningful learning experiences. We build agendas, create engaging activities, and carefully prepare every slide with the hope that participants leave feeling inspired and equipped to take action. But what if the greatest obstacle to transformational learning isn't the curriculum? What if it's us? Many facilitators unintentionally measure success by a simple question: "Did I get through all of my content?" While preparat

Most people think emotional intelligence is something you're either born with or without. I don't. I believe emotional intelligence is a practice. Like any leadership skill, it grows stronger through awareness, intention, and repetition. Every day gives us opportunities to strengthen it or ignore it. Before we can manage our emotions or respond thoughtfully to others, we have to notice what's happening inside ourselves. Notice when your shoulders tense before a difficult conv

Every July, Disability Pride Month invites us to celebrate the more than one billion people worldwide living with disabilities while reflecting on how we create communities, workplaces, and systems where everyone can thrive. At Silver Linings International, we believe every person brings unique strengths and perspectives. Disability Pride Month aligns with our commitment to trauma-informed practice, Appreciative Inquiry, and creating environments where everyone feels valued a

Some stories can't be told with statistics. A chart can reveal trends, and a report can summarize outcomes, but neither can fully capture what it's like to overcome adversity, navigate mental health challenges, or advocate for change. Sometimes a single photograph says what words never could. A piece of art sparks a conversation. A personal story changes the way people think. That's why approaches like PhotoVoice, storytelling, youth advisory boards, peer-led initiatives, and

Recently, I had the privilege of spending the day with an incredible group of professionals in Vancouver, Washington, facilitating a Trauma-Informed Motivational Interviewing (TIMI) training for the Council for Homelessness. While the training focused on developing practical skills and strategies, what left the greatest impression on me was the unwavering commitment these professionals bring to the young people they serve every day. For youth and young adults experiencing hou

What if one small shift could improve communication, strengthen trust, reduce workplace stress, and create a healthier team culture? Many supervisors assume leadership transformation requires major organizational changes, extensive training, or entirely new management systems. While those things can certainly help, some of the most powerful leadership shifts begin with something much simpler. A different question. The next time a staff member appears disengaged, frustrated, r

As supervisors, we've all experienced it. An employee walks into our office frustrated. Their tone is sharp. They're defensive, emotional, or angry. We try to explain the situation, but they push back. We become frustrated. They become more upset. Before long, the conversation is no longer about the original issue. Then there is another employee who appears to be the exact opposite. They insist they're fine. They volunteer for extra projects. They rarely ask for help. They ap

One of the greatest misconceptions about leadership is that strong leaders are the people who always have the answers, solve every problem, and step in whenever something goes wrong. In reality, effective leadership often requires the opposite. During our recent Leadership Lab, participants explored what it means to move from doing for people to doing with people. While this shift may sound simple, it is one of the most powerful changes leaders can make. Many of us enter help

In a world that often celebrates independence, grit, and the ability to "push through," it can be easy to believe that resilience is something we build alone. We tell ourselves to stay strong, work harder, and keep moving forward, even when life feels overwhelming. Yet one of the most important truths about resilience is that it was never meant to be a solo journey. Resilience is not simply about enduring hardship. It is about our ability to adapt, recover, and continue movin

Mental Health Awareness Month is a timely reminder that well-being at work is not a secondary concern. It is central to how people perform, connect, and sustain themselves in today’s demanding environments. Across many industries, employees are managing increasing pressure, emotional labor, and constant change. Even in meaningful work, this ongoing strain can build over time and show up as stress, burnout, disengagement, or turnover. At the same time, these challenges highlig

There are moments in this work when we are called not just to lead, but to reflect, adapt, and grow alongside the people we support. I’m honored to be presenting at the 3rd Annual Peer Support Profession Summit, hosted by BIPOC Parent Mental Health Project, taking place May 19–20 in Niagara Falls. This gathering brings together peers, supervisors, and leaders from across New York and North America who are deeply committed to advancing peer support through equity, inclusion, a

Ever been in the middle of a training or meeting and suddenly… everything shifts? Someone takes over the room. A late arrival disrupts the flow. A comment lands wrong and you can feel the energy drop. Or the leader you need to engage shuts down completely. And just like that, you are adjusting on the fly, trying to recover, wondering what just happened and how to bring the room back. These moments can feel isolating, but they are far more common than most facilitators admit.

Language is not just a tool we use, it is a living, evolving expression of who we are. It carries our histories, reflects our values, and shapes how we see the world. Every conversation, no matter how simple, is layered with context: culture, experience, emotion. When we begin to recognize this, communication shifts from a transactional exchange of words to something far more meaningful, an opportunity to connect. Too often, differences in language are misunderstood. Variatio

In many workplaces, performance is measured through visible outcomes. Productivity, deadlines, deliverables, and results often define how success is evaluated. These indicators matter, but they do not tell the full story of what employees carry each day. There is another layer of work happening beneath the surface, one that is rarely tracked but deeply felt. It shows up in how people manage their emotions during difficult conversations, how they remain composed under pressure

Leadership is often described through strategy, decision-making, and outcomes, but many of the moments that shape a leader most happen in everyday conversations that suddenly become difficult. A recent Leadership Lab reinforced that leadership is tested less in formal settings and more in emotionally charged interactions where professionalism and self-awareness matter most. One of the strongest themes was boundary-setting. A participant shared an experience of being addressed

Many leaders step into their roles with a deep sense of responsibility. When a team member is struggling, when tension rises in a meeting, or when uncertainty begins to affect morale, the instinct to solve the problem quickly can feel almost automatic. Leadership often teaches people to be decisive, responsive, and prepared with answers. In fast-moving workplaces, being able to fix things is often seen as a sign of competence. Yet some of the most important leadership moments

Leaders often enter change initiatives with the best intentions. A new process is designed to improve efficiency. A new structure is introduced to strengthen communication. A new initiative is launched because leadership genuinely believes it will help people and improve outcomes. Yet even when change is thoughtful and necessary, resistance often appears quickly. Questions surface. Energy shifts. Participation slows. Conversations become cautious, and sometimes frustration ri