From Silence to Connection: How “What’s Your Why?” Transforms Teams
- Kelli
- Sep 15
- 2 min read
In today's fast-paced and often fragmented work environments, fostering genuine connection and trust among team members is more crucial than ever. One powerful way to achieve this is by beginning meetings with the question: “What’s your why?”

This simple yet profound inquiry invites individuals to share the deeper motivations and values that drive their work. It shifts the focus from tasks and deadlines to purpose and passion, creating a space where authenticity and vulnerability are not only welcomed but encouraged. When team members open up about their personal "why," it humanizes them beyond their roles and responsibilities, fostering empathy and understanding.
At Silver Linings International, we recognize the transformative power of such practices. Our approach integrates trauma-informed principles, positive psychology, and Appreciative Inquiry to cultivate environments where individuals feel safe, valued, and motivated to contribute their best selves. By embedding these frameworks into our programs, we help organizations move from a deficit-based mindset to one that appreciates strengths and possibilities.
In leadership and supervision, starting with "What’s your why?" can be particularly impactful. It sets a tone of openness and mutual respect, essential for building trust and collaboration. This practice aligns with trauma-informed supervision, which emphasizes safety, trustworthiness, and empowerment. Leaders who model vulnerability and authenticity create cultures where feedback is constructive, relationships are supportive, and individuals are empowered to grow.
Moreover, this approach is not just about individual connection; it's about collective transformation. When teams regularly engage in appreciative inquiry—asking questions that focus on strengths, successes, and aspirations—they unlock creativity, enhance problem-solving, and build resilience. This aligns with our mission to facilitate sustainable and profound change through collaborative and strengths-based processes.
In conclusion, beginning meetings with "What’s your why?" is more than a conversation starter; it's a practice that can transform team dynamics, leadership effectiveness, and organizational culture. By embracing vulnerability and authenticity, we pave the way for deeper connections, greater trust, and a more engaged and resilient workforce.
At Silver Linings International, we are committed to supporting organizations on this journey, helping them harness the power of appreciative inquiry to create environments where everyone thrives. Check out our course calendar to further your learning...